Happy Birthday Sister In Law Wishes

For those that do not have a sister, a relationship with their sister or just need another new friend, a sister in law can be a great listening ear. In fact, it can work both ways so she also feels comfortable sharing any issues or concerns that may arise in the marriage with your sibling without feeling judged.

As the saying goes, “We can't pick our family, but we can pick our friends,” a sister in law is married into the family, and one would think that means the relationship isn't optional, but it actually is. If you or your sister in law wanted the relationship to be just cordial, it could be. If you both decided to pursue a close relationship as siblings in law, you know it's because the effort was put in by both of you---not simply because you are suddenly related.

Not all in-laws are intimidated by the family they marry into. Your sister in law could definitely be one of those people. If so, she'd be willing to share her honest and direct feedback regarding any issues you may be having in life, including those directly related to your family.

Is your sister in law a homeowner or renter? Is she a current college student or a graduate? Does she like nights out or in? What's her favorite food or music? These are practical examples of questions to ask to help determine the gift that fits your sister in law and one she can use.

Have you ever heard your sister in law complain about something? Maybe it's constant back or neck pain or needing a pedicure or manicure? Listen for clues, and use them as ideas to purchase a gift that could create a solution for a problem your sister in law may be having.

If you're willing to take some time from your own life, offering your sister in law a day or night off by babysitting for her is an idea. She can then focus on herself or even go on a date with her partner, giving her a chance to do something kid-free and recharge.

Sometimes social media really has all the answers (or at least it feels like it). Doing a little snooping on your sister in law's social media could provide you with the answers you may need to find the perfect gift for her.

What fun things did your sister in law used to love? Ask her siblings, parents or friends what were some of her favorite pastimes. Use those as ideas to give her a gift that will bring back awesome memories.

So what are some great celebration or gift ideas?

Think about a fun and interesting theme that will grab the attention of your guests and get your sister in law excited. Was she born in the 70s or 80s? A 70s or 80s themed party with costumes to match can be a great time. Does she like animals, have a favorite color or television show? Think of things that she loves, and decide the best fit for her themed party.

Sometimes a small or catered dinner with close friends and family is the best way to celebrate your sister in law's birthday. Think of thoughtful gestures that can be done at the dinner, like kind words or special gifts, to make the dinner unique and fun.

Social media is the obvious choice for many when sending birthday wishes. It's important to remember that not everyone uses social media, and if they have a profile, they may not always check it. Also, depending on the closeness of the relationship, some people may not think social media is personal enough, and for many, a personal touch is extremely important when it comes to birthdays. If social media is an option, make it personal with ideas like pictures of you and your sister in law, inside jokes or memes or GIFs to accompany your birthday message.

Some people love birthday cards so adding your message to your sister in law in a card could be the perfect touch for her. The card should be one that your sister in law can relate to or even one that fits your relationship with her.

Sometimes a good old fashioned face-to-face meeting or phone call is the best way to deliver your perfect happy birthday sister in law message.